tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4655260163079236642.post9171672130379508118..comments2023-10-22T08:53:40.925-07:00Comments on Rosie Dayze: Anxietyjanzihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11061408016373122220noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4655260163079236642.post-69771625845463160782012-10-20T15:36:34.785-07:002012-10-20T15:36:34.785-07:00You really DO need to have some sort of chat with ...You really DO need to have some sort of chat with your family and tell them how this stirs memories and emotions within you. I'm sure that if nothing else it would help you to put these ghosts to rest. They are your children, I'm sure they would understand. Rose H (UK)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03502158211136467582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4655260163079236642.post-41848071883499178122012-10-20T03:44:01.222-07:002012-10-20T03:44:01.222-07:00I hope that your anxiety is soothed some today. I ...I hope that your anxiety is soothed some today. I agree with the other ladies who commented that talking to your children and explaining what their drinking is doing to you inside may help. It's really hard sometimes to say what's in our hearts for fear of rejection. But more often than not works out with family...at least in my experience.Sue Frelickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13150735651127251014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4655260163079236642.post-91680070853296180772012-10-19T15:07:36.489-07:002012-10-19T15:07:36.489-07:00how touching to see what youve written, thank you ...how touching to see what youve written, thank you for your words..they do help.. he is home now, had a great night out and I hope is planning to stay in the bedroom and go to sleep soon...!!janzihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11061408016373122220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4655260163079236642.post-61153812237468483642012-10-19T14:14:42.908-07:002012-10-19T14:14:42.908-07:00Poor you! I think there are some things in life th...Poor you! I think there are some things in life that follow us and I think your fear of drink is one of them. My ex drank beer and I now cannot stand the smell of it. My second husband will have a glass of G&T on occasion and I have no problems with that but sometimes he will have a beer and I feel sick to be near him~ a throwback memory of my ex too. Can you talk to them about it? I told my husband how it makes me feel and he was really understanding.I guess you never stop worrying about your kids coming home. I bet you'd still be waiting up even if he took a key. hugs xxxxSally xxSally@threeblondeboyzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15404196171891126510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4655260163079236642.post-80802954223184660072012-10-19T14:09:32.875-07:002012-10-19T14:09:32.875-07:00But I'm glad you did, tap on those keys. You&#...But I'm glad you did, tap on those keys. You're not alone with those feelings.<br />We all go through things like that and being proactive and sharing our feelings with the parties involved - before - these things happen is the key, I think. Not easy, but no one said it was going to be. I'll bet if you shared your anxiety with parties involved they would have a much more compassionate response than you imagine and may even learn something about themselves. They're not going to stop loving you for speaking up, that's for sure and you will feel better for getting that out of the your head and heart. - Not quite fair that you should suffer with it, even for your kids. Also teaches them how to deal with their own anxieties. Don't mean to preach, but I've got a bit of experience with this one..lol.<br />Hope you are feeling better today xxlivhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00091094639074377780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4655260163079236642.post-26002317175798638792012-10-19T13:35:21.462-07:002012-10-19T13:35:21.462-07:00Hello New Friend!
First let me thank you for the ...Hello New Friend!<br /><br />First let me thank you for the sweet comment and anniversary wishes!<br /><br />I do think that you are right - your feeling have a lot to do with your ex-husbands drinking and the emotions that surrounded it. Perhaps you feel that they may turn into their father someday? That it could cause problems in their own lives? Do they know how his drinking effected you and your relationship.<br /><br />Perhaps you can call him and ask him what time he'll be home because you didn't give him a key and you will probably retire early. Maybe you can hid a key outside for him and let him know where it is?<br /><br />I'm no therapist - just wishing you some peace tonight.<br /><br />It's hard when our children grow up isn't it?<br /><br />LeannThe Old Parsonagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07565689282935790616noreply@blogger.com